- GASLIGHTED. “WHAT THE…?!”by Diane DierksIt’s been a while since I divorced my children’s father… Read more: GASLIGHTED. “WHAT THE…?!”
- Cut It Out! Radical Resistance in Family Litigationby JanaeFor the last three decades, I have worked in the… Read more: Cut It Out! Radical Resistance in Family Litigation
- UNPACKING PARENTAL ALIENATION WITH CHILDREN IN MINDby JanaeThe feelings of children needing to split their loyalties with their parents may begin during the parents’ relationship or marriage.
- SHOULD YOU TAKE YOUR CO-PARENT CONFLICT TO COURT? MAYBE NOT.by JanaeFamily courts are designed to settle legal matters concerning families… Read more: SHOULD YOU TAKE YOUR CO-PARENT CONFLICT TO COURT? MAYBE NOT.
- Are Co-Parents Teaching Resilience?by JanaeAs more and more children experience high-conflict co-parenting, they not… Read more: Are Co-Parents Teaching Resilience?
- WHAT MAKES LIFE IMPOSSIBLE FOR A CHILD OF DIVORCE?by JanaePARENT SAYS: Your mom is a liar. That is not… Read more: WHAT MAKES LIFE IMPOSSIBLE FOR A CHILD OF DIVORCE?
- Let Them Be Orange!by JanaeKids who live with high-conflict co-parents often report feeling what… Read more: Let Them Be Orange!
- WHY ASKING WHY IS UNPRODUCTIVEby JanaeLoss like death, divorce, estrangement, etc. can be traumatic when… Read more: WHY ASKING WHY IS UNPRODUCTIVE
- FIVE WAYS TO KEEP YOUR CHILDREN OUT OF THE MIDDLEby JanaeIf you and your co-parent are high conflict, I guarantee… Read more: FIVE WAYS TO KEEP YOUR CHILDREN OUT OF THE MIDDLE
- Learning the Long Gameby JanaeParenting is hard. Co-parenting is harder. Either way, it’s not… Read more: Learning the Long Game
- When You Have to Go to Courtby JanaeMost professionals like me try to do everything possible to… Read more: When You Have to Go to Court
- Children Need Your Character, Not Your Imageby JanaeIn all of my years as a therapist, co-parent specialist,… Read more: Children Need Your Character, Not Your Image
- Narcissists in the Courtroomby JanaeListen to this episode of Co-Parent Dilemmas as Judge Warren… Read more: Narcissists in the Courtroom
- Co-Parent Dilemmas Podcastby JanaeI am pleased to announce that in addition to my… Read more: Co-Parent Dilemmas Podcast
- THE MAGIC OF SUMMERTIMEby JanaeSummer is here. I would like to challenge all co-parents… Read more: THE MAGIC OF SUMMERTIME
- The Tit for Tat Trapby JanaeFor some reason, I have had many parents express lately… Read more: The Tit for Tat Trap
- FIVE CHARACTERISTICS OF A “GOOD CO-PARENT”by JanaeThe meaning of word “co-parent” is elusive enough, but when… Read more: FIVE CHARACTERISTICS OF A “GOOD CO-PARENT”
- THE POWER OF PREDICTABILITYby JanaeI am busier now than ever before with new clients… Read more: THE POWER OF PREDICTABILITY
- Three Invaluable Co-Parent Phrasesby JanaeOne of the most common mistakes co-parents in conflict make… Read more: Three Invaluable Co-Parent Phrases
- DISTORTED THINKING DURING COVIDby JanaeNow, more than ever in our history, there is a… Read more: DISTORTED THINKING DURING COVID
- Why can’t he just be normal?by JanaeI recently had a mom walk into my office and… Read more: Why can’t he just be normal?
- Co-Parent Tip of the Month: Kids Want to Matterby JanaeI witnessed an amazing transformation recently in my practice that… Read more: Co-Parent Tip of the Month: Kids Want to Matter
- Parenting Plan Compliance During the COVID-19 Crisisby JanaeI’ve been getting a lot of calls and emails about… Read more: Parenting Plan Compliance During the COVID-19 Crisis
- A COVID-19 Message to All Co-Parentsby JanaeIt seems important to talk about the crisis we’re in… Read more: A COVID-19 Message to All Co-Parents
- Co-Parent Tip of the Month: Ten Rulesby JanaeThis month, I want to share the rules of co-parent… Read more: Co-Parent Tip of the Month: Ten Rules
- Nana: I Was Just Trying to Helpby Janae(To protect confidentiality, names and details have been modified.) I… Read more: Nana: I Was Just Trying to Help
- Jasmine: Daddy’s Little Girlby Janae(To protect confidentiality, names and details have been modified) Jasmine’s… Read more: Jasmine: Daddy’s Little Girl
- Daniel: But I Hate Cucumbers!by Janae(To protect confidentiality, names and details have been modified) When… Read more: Daniel: But I Hate Cucumbers!
- John & Charlotte: Why Can’t We Just Be Friends?by JanaeJohn and Charlotte came to see me voluntarily because they… Read more: John & Charlotte: Why Can’t We Just Be Friends?
- Olivia’s Story: You Had Me at Helloby Janae(To protect confidentiality, names and details have been modified) She… Read more: Olivia’s Story: You Had Me at Hello
- Secret Sauce for the 20 Percentby JanaeHigh-conflict co-parents are defined as those who cannot fit into… Read more: Secret Sauce for the 20 Percent
- Give Something for Nothing!by JanaeIt takes donations to provide sliding scale services to our/your… Read more: Give Something for Nothing!
- Let’s Just Call a Therapistby Janae“…of course the therapist would have to say something to the court…wouldn’t she?”
- 18 is the New 15by JanaeTeens are not equipped to handle too much responsibility. Recent… Read more: 18 is the New 15
- Asking the Right Questionsby JanaeOne of the biggest parenting mistakes you can make is… Read more: Asking the Right Questions
- Modeling Resilienceby JanaeResilience is a dying word in our society, in my… Read more: Modeling Resilience