Tag: defending

  • Accusing and Defending Don’t Work!

    Accusing and Defending Don’t Work!

    Many co-parents think that they must defend themselves against the accusing words of their ex. When I ask a parent why they feel they have to respond to lies or accusations, they often say, “Because it’s not true!” That may be the case, however, it’s the defense that keeps the conflict alive. Our culture seems…